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dear strong eagle...I kinda like your sense of humor but the answer for that question is 'because he did something wrong’. I know you all are trying to ‘normalize’ the fact that guys ‘just go to these places to have a laugh’ but to be honest…I think it is something deeper than that. There is somethi...

Hi everyone, thanks for your replies. It is very interesting to hear your perspective and I am not here trying to say bad things about my "poor husband". I am just in shock and trying to find ways to cope...you are helping with your funny and sometimes totally 'off the mark' remarks. I am not a jeal...

Thank you all for your male perspective. That's exactly what I was looking for. I just really wanted to know what made him go there in the first place...some locals have told me that the girls greet the customers with a kiss and immediately start some kind of intimate contact (hands on the legs, han...

Hi nakatago, thanks for your comment.
Yes, I have done it. He admits and 'normalizes' it buy saying it is a 'guy thing'...he is sorry and have said so, but I am still considering divorce.

sorry guys, although I know that guys will always be guys I am a bit old fashion when it comes down to marital vows. I believe that 'something' made him decide to go to those places. I am trying to understand what that 'something' is...he is a very intelligent and good looking man. He is married to ...

Thanks for the info. Yes, I found evidence that my husband went to two of those bars after a happy hour. This is causing a lot of suffering...sorry, I am not always a very gloomy person but the news of my husband going to those bars has shaken me my core. If possible, do you have any specific inform...

Hi there, I am a married female expat I just need to ask male expats out there for information about Tanjong Pagar girly bars. Anyway, let me get to the point. What exactly do men do at those bars? Do the girls approach the costumers just to chat or the initial approach is already very intimate? So...