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Its the process that's painful to most people.

After the dust settles, we emerge, different. May be good, may be bad. Depends. A shadow within remains, that's for sure.

Thanks moderator sundaymorningstaple

Hi Kayleen,

It appears that I am unable to reply to your PM as I have not posted enough in the forum .

Not sure if I got it right.

I think it'll never be truely over, since we are still connected by our daughter. We both have custody, but she has the day to day care. I see my daughter once Or twice a week.

I haven't spoken to her for the longest time since I chose silence and non response to her unreasonable demands.

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