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Rivers, you've come a long way,,, i remember.. and you're all new again!! Ive been down that road you travelled too.. and i know. So whats the resolution? I make them through the year actually... sometimes i make them and falter. Other times i make them and see them through. Ive just made a resoluti...

Ha! ha! I can just see it!!

Thanks Sapphire. I appreciate and accept your apology. Contrary to some comments of others that I was putting "thoughts in her head", these are thoughts Scooter already was pondering anyway and Im sure there were others in SB's life (family, friends near and far, etc) other than us she was discussin...

Thanks Sapphire. I appreciate and accept your apology. Contrary to some comments of others that I was putting "thoughts in her head", these are thoughts Scooter already was pondering anyway and Im sure there were others in SB's life (family, friends near and far, etc) other than us she was discussin...

You are entitled to all the opinions you wish to express sapphire and I would prefer not to comment on your post. I am glad you feel better have said all you had to say.

MorningGlory, are you for real? :roll: I think the time for those games is over. Its time for an open conversation. If her hubby doesn't oblige, he doesn't want to work things out or is too much of a coward. I think its time for him to apologise and offer an explanation. And, for Scooter to be brav...

MorningGlory, are you for real? :roll: I think the time for those games is over. Its time for an open conversation. If her hubby doesn't oblige, he doesn't want to work things out or is too much of a coward. I think its time for him to apologise and offer an explanation. And, for Scooter to be brav...

If he had told her about you finding the messages and questioning him, she will be on guard.. and she will tell him she got a call.. now you have to observe him.. has he become rattier and irritable or sweeter.. or just moody and quiet?

Keylogging? Damn dude, that has got to be the shittiest advice I ever heard. I suppose the concept of privacy doesn't exist. Agreed though that trust has to be the prime directive. Regardless of whether the bloke's a scumbag, it sounds like the OP is already convinced otherwise. I mean seriously, n...

Thanks Eric. What sux about this whole situation is being here. I mean, singapore is a great place, but it is totally different to our life in Aust. My husband works really long hours and we don't really have time to chat anymore. That's why I'm thrashing this out on the forum, rather than talking ...

my thots are in a PM- feel its better to do it that way

His reaction was at first flat out denial. He then got angry and said it made him mad that I don't trust him, and he wishes he did have an affair. I'm with you. If I got SMS messages like that I would A) respond to the person sending them alerting them to the fact that they were sending the message...

Hope your rant is over - try to read what I said - you are so quick in condemning this guy from the safety of your chair - this is someone's relationship we are talking about, not a game for you to vent your anger at. (I'm glad you find my posts entertaining - I aim to please, even grouches. :) ) 1...

Thank you so much for all your replies. I gave him an ultimatum on Sunday - I asked him if he was/had had an affair - he said no BS I asked him who the sms were from - he said he didn't know the number or who they were from. BS I asked him if he remembered getting them - he said no I asked him if h...

Thank you so much for all your replies. I gave him an ultimatum on Sunday - I asked him if he was/had had an affair - he said no BS I asked him who the sms were from - he said he didn't know the number or who they were from. BS I asked him if he remembered getting them - he said no I asked him if h...