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I'll tell you why men or women cheat - because they're selfish. I truly believe that even if a relationship is lacking, if you respect yourself and your partner (i.e. you can think outside yourself and are not selfish) you would never cheat. I know this is true. i have a wonderful male friend who ev...

Sorry everyone. Apparently the pic of my cat was just too damned cute and rather than upload it, the software thought it would keep the image for intself. How rude. Well he is impossibly cute. I'm actually quite good right now. you know the saying - time wounds all heels. I've taken that on board an...

and now you see where I get half my forum name from.

how is everyone?

I am miserable about 90% of the time but I suppose that's to be expected.

He's say "Welcome home, and don't worry, your lying, cheating husband's name is not on the door".

Not that I'm bitter. Just wish he'd go to hell.

Thanks Bubs.

Sorry for not posting for a while. Have been down in the dumps a bit lately.

I am seeing a therapist to help me get through this.

Hi - it's me. I'm back in Australia.

How is everyone else

I'm about to leave for the airport. I may not post for a while but wanted to thank everyone for being so supportive.

I'll check in when I get back to Sydney. Enjoy this beautiful country. I'm sad to be leaving even though I have only been here for a few weeks.

Yeah. My life sux at the moment. But I am feeling so proud of myself for being strong and leaving. I know he will regret this. Even if he does, that's for him to deal with, not me.

Now I understand where you're coming from. You're not being too harsh. You are right - an affair usually indicates that there is problems in the marriage. And a successful marriage doesn't just happen as a result of me being attractive, smart and independent. Not that I am excusing his behaviour at ...

scooter and biscuit - names of my two cats

Hey Elizabeth. yes that may be true. Maybe he doesn't like smart, attractive, independent girls. Maybe he's after an ugly, dimwitted slave.

I really don't care who or what he likes at the moment. All I care about is taking care of me.

The last message was sent from my husband to her

I just found a message:

Sorry for the silence. Touchy subject. I know it's hard. I still love you.

As you can imagine - I'm devastated. My good friend just gave me valium to calm me down. Typing is hard. tomorrow is gonna suck.

Closure at last

Wham - thanks for your post. But please guys, don't say anything mean about morning glory. she has been a pillar of strength for me. A lot of what she says is because she has been through what I have been dealing with. I love that you have all given me strength but I feel a certain affinity with MG ...

There is a stray cat that is hanging around our place. I'm an animal lover so I have been feeding it. Has anyone else had experience in befriending stray cats? I want to make sure it's Ok and even adopt it. How long and what do you need to do to gain the cat's trust and invite it into your home. I a...