Wingwomen Mission Impossible

[amui]

It is sort of girly topic but I thought I could share this mission here and see whether there would be comments about this topic

Is it middle age crisis? I don't think so but most of my friends have left Singapore and some who still live here are kind of in "retiring" mode . So, no more night out, no drinking (although I do not drink at all), no night out where we would just do people watching or "check out this guy, he has a weird hairdo", clubbing, hanging out at bars, etc. Even if we do go out, it would be just girls hanging out talking about work, life, etc.

Few of my colleagues think I should find more friends, who would not only be friends to hang out with, but also can be your wingwomen . Get "fresh air' with new friends. So I have been given a task to find new friends / wingwomen, with a deadline by mid Dec 2019. Talking about deadline

I don't think there would be any collateral damage for taking this task. But I think it would be an interesting topic to share and exchange opinion in this forum.

[abbby]

Yes, I think, as you grow older, sometimes there's not much of a mood to go drinking, pubbing, hangout and just want to stay at home and catch up on Netflix. But it's always nice to have a few good friends to share your happiness and woes, gossips once in a while. I know what you mean, sometimes, I too, feel too lazy or tired to make that extra effort going out, making new friends. There are a few ladies (in their 20s though) looking to make new friends. What's your age group?

[amui]

Going 40 soon. Well, yes that is very true. Aging comes in package but I don't think I want to be someone who would stay indoor most of the time. There are time I want to go out but most of my girls are either married & have kids, or prefer to stay indoor. Others that like to go out have left Singapore for good. Not easy to get them to come out and chill.

[treefrog]

Hi there! Is your mid-December deadline over? I'm old (43F) but still like playing the fool and going clubbing -- not to get trashed or pick up blokes, but I like dancing and just going out (doesn't need to be fancy -- I'm not fancy). I'd say over half my girlfriends are divorced or still single, but having moved to SG from the US about a year ago (but I grew up in KL and SG) am a bit perplexed that everyone here seems to be hitched and doing the family thing. It's been ok since I've had lots of visitors this year... but I am finding it really weird that after a full year I don't really have people here to just go party with. LMK if you're still looking for new friends! And happy holidays!

[amui]

Hi there

My colleague told me to bring forward the deadline to 2020 last year and sure we can hang out if you want. I will send you DM later

[treefrog]

for sure! cheers

[amui]

Hey @treefrog

I sent you PM. Can you check whether you have receive it?