i am a boring person with few friends what should i do?

jt03 · Post by **jt03** » Tue, 26 Dec 2006 12:04 pm

As above

whiZZ_nixZZ · Post by **whiZZ_nixZZ** » Tue, 26 Dec 2006 2:04 pm

Well why not you mix around more. Maybe you can join in the gathering that they plan for..

jt03 · Post by **jt03** » Tue, 26 Dec 2006 3:25 pm

i ever thought of joining the outing but there is this fear in me, sometimes i am afraid of meeting people, when i am tired i look very dead and with very few words. i am afraid that others will feel bored or uncomfortable being with me. haiz...

sharkie8480 · Post by **sharkie8480** » Tue, 26 Dec 2006 4:42 pm

In that case, make sure you are not tired when you do go out to meet people.
Its a lose lose situation if you don't meet people because you think they will be bored with you!

sean_huang · Post by **sean_huang** » Tue, 26 Dec 2006 10:45 pm

I think sometime I just felt the same way as you, I just do not want to see people around me. But I feel I need more friends and need a buddy to talk to. Never mind, everything we can learn, be the first one to make a move, things will get better!

timtams · Post by **timtams** » Wed, 27 Dec 2006 12:52 am

Hi jt03,

Don't worry too much about what others think & I'm sure you'll discover you're more interesting than you think you are!

Some of us are going out this Fri night. You're welcome to join us if you've got nothing planned.

ria3n · Post by **ria3n** » Wed, 27 Dec 2006 2:47 am

should go for it..

denise838405 · Post by **denise838405** » Wed, 27 Dec 2006 9:58 am

well the first step u should do is to go out more often and meet new ppl... if u dun take the first step out u will neber be out of the situation

. some more it no harm trying it

kingajit · Post by **kingajit** » Wed, 27 Dec 2006 7:22 pm

jt03 wrote:As above

jt03 dont be so modest...if others r getting bored because of u...thats not ur problem

go ahead n bore them.....check out if they can tahaan u!

who knows u may meet a more challenging person who might compete with u in boring

have a good weekend!

local lad · Post by **local lad** » Thu, 28 Dec 2006 10:16 am

Hey jt03,

If you don't mind me asking but are you an engineer of some sort? I thought I am the only one with few friends and I've observed also other engineers I've worked with also have a few friends too. Hmm....stigma man.

If you need someone to talk to, PM me ya?

renter · Post by **renter** » Thu, 28 Dec 2006 4:50 pm

to make friends, first you have to treat other people as friends, not other people treat you as a friend first.

jt03 · Post by **jt03** » Fri, 29 Dec 2006 11:13 am

wow thanks for so many advices, hmm... i know i have to take the initiative to talk to others but i don't know what to talk about. Most of the time i will tend to think very hard what should i talk about. I am studying building and real estate management, belong to engineering department too.

carte · Post by **carte** » Fri, 29 Dec 2006 11:20 am

well whats your interests?

Left Wing · Post by **Left Wing** » Fri, 29 Dec 2006 4:09 pm

have you tired orchard towers many lonely men find "friends" there......(sorry had to do it)

queenie-me · Post by **queenie-me** » Fri, 29 Dec 2006 4:47 pm

jt03 wrote:wow thanks for so many advices, hmm... i know i have to take the initiative to talk to others but i don't know what to talk about. Most of the time i will tend to think very hard what should i talk about. I am studying building and real estate management, belong to engineering department too.

i think you should go out with a chatty person who can get you going on.

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i am a boring person with few friends what should i do?

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