Where to get some friends?!

[DespeRuth]

So... I recently moved here, my boyfriend is working his ass off, and I'm basicly stuck at home in the bleeding rain driving myself completely MAD!!!

His collegues' wifes are all pregnant (and I am not - and no immediate plans either) and very nest-building, whereas I would rather be dead than caught baby-cot-shopping.

I checked with my embassy, but they have no fun stuff going on for people in their 20's, and I am not very religious so getting involved in some church really isn't an option either.

What should I do..?

[dormer]

desperuth,

do something part-time, many expat wives and girlfriends do that. Teach tuiton, cooking, sewing, or pick up a hobby, in this way could have better chance of widening your social circle.

[Gael]

You may wish to do something worthwhile should monetary isn't an issue at home. If you can afford, you may wish to join some voluntary group for some duties. Cheerios!

[sincere guy]

wanna join me sun tan at km8 sentosa. pm me plse.

[sincere guy]

Hi despruth,

I am very free like u Mon - Fri nothing better to do.

[javer]

check the forum threads, pick something that interests you and join the fun...

[Guest]

Hi despruth,

I am very free like u Mon - Fri nothing better to do.

DespeRuth,

Ignore the post from sincer_guy, he is one desperate person. Posting things such as needing a bodybuilding female partner and she has to be caucasian between the ages of 24-29.

sincere_guy

Shouldnt your handle be "desperated_guy"?

[Lucky dude]

Join the WDNC! (see topic below) and dont be desperate, be patient. I am here since Dec04 and I hardly know people.. those I met and liked, left to live somewhere else.. You will find out quickly that finding real friends in Singapore is an illusion.. but I dont wanna take that from you... so just come 8)

[shasha_sg76]

hi Desperuth..u know what..we r in the same boat!!! my hubby is workign his ass too ,,always going to ship,,,he is in the oil bunkering line,,n now forgets tht he even has a wife at home,,!! sucks big time.. when i complain to him,,he says its all for the future. u wanna join sumtin ,,, count me in babe... u can e-mail me at [email protected]

[dancingbaby]

Hi DespeRuth

I also pretty free during the weekends or even after work. If you are up to it we can sun tan @ the beach on the weekends. My dad got a place there and he can do some cooking.

Feel free to email me @ [email protected]

[EminSing]

Ha....was so pleased to see he replies...i am a 22 yr old English girl...my boyf is working is ass off and i am stuck here job hunting!!!! Ahhh!!!!! PM me if your in the same position!

[Deadpoet]

I sinserely hope DespeRuth is no longer desperate, since the original thread was started in Jan 04. If she is still desperate, very sad.

[Guest]

yeah, all desperated indians from Singapore will try join you

[shasha_sg76]

hey what do you mean by Desperate Indians.. ??? Y must be indians ,, cant u mention anytin else....

[cuteguysg1]

Hey all,

You dont feel bad about nausty people ( i mean User :Guest)...

This user Guest always talk bad about people around here...

Just be carefull people around here...

Wish you all best to find true friends ...